Why You Care So Much About These 5 Things (and How To Stop)

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Don’t allow your life to be controlled by these 5 things.

In today’s episode, Mel reveals the 5 surprising things that you waste time and energy on right now.

You’ll be surprised by the sneaky things that are holding you back.

Here’s the thing: when you try to control everything, you can’t focus on anything that’s truly important.

By the end of this episode, you’ll learn the simple shifts that help you make room for the things that really matter.

This episode is a companion to Mel’s brand new free training, Make It Happen.

This training is designed to help you make your next 6 months extraordinary. It includes a 29 page workbook and 2 video trainings that use the latest research to help you get clear about what you want and create a plan to make it happen.

And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at

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I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode.

In this episode:
00:00 Intro
01:05: An exciting free gift from Mel to you!
06:27: The first thing that you can’t control, but you CAN control whether it bothers you.
09:43: What happens to your brain when you do things you don’t want to do.
12:01: The second thing you try controlling is wasting your time.
13:06: How to reframe lost time as found time.
18:16: The third thing you’ll never be able to control, but you can control how much space you allow it to occupy.
19:00: The precious commodity that you’re giving away for free.
21:04: What researchers have found is happening to people who engage with social media passively.
25:20: The fourth thing you try to control is holding you back.
27:10: How to move past the things you regret.
28:54: The fifth thing that you can’t control, but you can influence it by what you do today.
29:13: How Mel can predict who you’re going to be six months from now.
31:40: How you can redirect your energy and time to make your life better.

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How to Change Your Life in 6 Months: This One Hack Will Make It Happen

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In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to change your life in 6 months.

Mel shares the one question that will determine your next 6 months and reveal who you really are.

Then, Mel shares how to go from thinking about what you want, to taking action and making it happen.

The free companion workbook to this episode can be found at

Along with your workbook, Mel has created 2 video trainings to help you feel inspired, energized, & in control again.

Mel created this free program, Make It Happen, as a way to thank YOU for your support of this podcast and for making it one of the most popular podcasts in the world.

The next 6 months of your life could be extraordinary, but it’s not going to happen by accident.

It will happen because you CHOOSE to make it happen.

Do not let another year of your life go by wishing things were different. This is your opportunity to make it happen. Why wouldn’t you take it?

And the cool part? It takes less than a minute for you to get started. Just sign up at

For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page:

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I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode.

In this episode:
00:00 Intro
02:36: Two of the BEST reasons for setting goals.
05:53: Three free gifts Mel has for you.
09:27: Mel reveals the goals she’s been working on.
10:55: The one goal Mel set that never went anywhere.
13:02: Do THIS to improve relationships with your family and friends.
17:07: Try this activity with Mel to boost your motivation.
19:18: The 5 categories that define your life.
21:48: How Mel had not yet committed fully to her new home.
24:32: The wakeup call that’s changed Mel’s relationship with her parents.
26:56: In 6 months, Mel will be thick in the middle of this.
29:52: Is there something that used to be a priority that isn’t anymore?
31:35: If you’ve been lulled into the same old routines, you need to hear this..
37:49: How to make the next 6 months feel exciting and energizing.

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Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast while you’re on-the-go! 🎧 Available wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. New episodes drop every Monday (to start your week) and Thursday (to get you through it).
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